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We all have blind spots about our own personality. The traits you’re most proud of might not register with the people around you — and your real superpower might be something you take for granted.
Free to start · No account required for friends · Based on personality psychology research
Score yourself on 12 personality traits — things like how funny you are, how well you listen, how creative you think you are. Be honest — nobody’s watching (yet).
Send your unique quiz link to friends, family, or coworkers. They answer anonymously — so they can be honest too.
Discover where your self-image matches reality, where you’re selling yourself short, and what surprises are hiding in the gap.
In the 1950s, psychologists Joseph Luft and Harrington Ingham created the Johari Window — a framework showing that parts of our personality are visible to others but invisible to ourselves. Decades later, researcher Simine Vazire proved that friends are actually more accurate than we are at rating many of our own traits. The closer a trait is to how we want to be seen, the worse we are at judging it.
We turned that science into something you can actually use.
Your results reveal four types of insights that most people never get access to — until now.
Traits you rate highly but others don’t see. We tend to overestimate the qualities we value most in ourselves.
Superpowers you take for granted. These are the things others admire about you that you’ve never given yourself credit for.
Self-ratings and friend-ratings often diverge more than you’d expect. Your radar chart reveals exactly where your gaps are.
The moments that change how you see yourself — like learning you’re funnier than you thought, or less patient than you assumed.
Humor
Sarah never thought she was funny. Her friends say she’s one of the funniest people they know.
Listening
Marcus prides himself on being a great listener. His friends say he interrupts more than he realizes.
Leadership
Jordan never saw herself as a leader. Her friends rated her leadership higher than almost any other trait.
See the big picture — your overall match and radar chart.
Cheaper than a personality test. Way more fun.
See exactly which traits you overestimate, which ones you undervalue, and what your friends would never tell you to your face.
It takes 2 minutes. The insights last a lifetime.
Create Your Free QuizYes — all responses are completely anonymous. Your friends never see each other’s answers, and you never see who said what. Anonymity is what makes the results trustworthy.
Most people are pleasantly surprised. The biggest gaps tend to be hidden strengths — things your friends see in you that you’ve been undervaluing. The blind spots are just as valuable — it’s the kind of honest feedback most people never get.
The quiz is inspired by the Johari Window framework and research on self-other knowledge asymmetries by psychologist Simine Vazire. It’s not a clinical assessment — it’s a tool for self-reflection built on established ideas from personality psychology.
You can see results with just one response, but 3–5 friends gives you a much more reliable picture. The more perspectives, the clearer the patterns become.